Going to a friend's house.

A different house with different rules, different food, a different bathroom. Knowing it will be unfamiliar, and that's okay, helps.

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A Friend's House

Today I am going to a friend's house.

Their house is different from mine. That is okay.

Their family might have different rules and different food.

If I am not sure what to do, I can ask my friend or their grown-up.

If I need a break, I can take one.

When it is time, I say thank you and we go home.

Make it yours

More ways to prepare for a friend's house

What to expect

Someone else's house is full of small unknowns: where things are, what the rules are, what's for snack. Naming that it will be different, and that they can ask or take a break, makes a strange house feel safer.

One tip from a dad who's been there

Tell your child one or two specific differences ahead of time (their dog, no shoes inside) so the surprises are smaller. It's okay to bring a familiar snack or comfort item.