Having a playdate.
Another kid in your space, sharing your things, playing their way sometimes. Fun, and a lot of social work at once.
Social story
A Playdate
Today a friend is coming over to play.
We can play together and pick things we both like.
Sometimes my friend wants a turn with my toys. Taking turns is part of playing together.
If I need a quiet break, I can take one. My friend will still be here.
Playing with a friend can be fun, even when it is also a lot.
When it is time, we say goodbye. My friend can come again another day.
More ways to prepare for a playdate
What to expect
Playdates ask for a lot at once: sharing space and toys, going along with someone else's ideas, handling a goodbye. Naming that turns happen and that it's okay to take a break makes the visit doable.
One tip from a dad who's been there
Keep first playdates short and put away the few toys that are hardest to share. Tell your child it's okay to take a quiet break in their room if it gets to be too much.
