Role Guides
Find the Right Words for the Moment
Quick “do / say / avoid” guides for real life — so families feel welcomed, not watched.
What these guides do
- Help you respond with calm, not confusion — even when things get big.
- Give you simple scripts that reduce pressure and protect dignity.
- Offer “success versions” so participation stays possible (breaks count, short counts, quiet counts).
Pick what fits your world
Choose the role where you’re most likely to show up. Start with one page. Copy a script. That’s real support.
School Staff
Support regulation and dignity in the moments that matter most: transitions, waiting, noise, and “not yet” moments.
Coaches
Keep kids included without pressure: shorter turns, clear rejoin plans, and calm support when it gets loud or slow.
Coworkers
Help that lands well at work: specific offers, easy outs, and support that doesn’t make it awkward or performative.
Neighbors
Support that feels normal: warmth, privacy, and one practical option at a time (without questions or an audience).
Need a fast answer right now?
If you’re in the moment and want quick, normal-sounding words, the Autism Supporter Guide gives you a clear next step.